Clubbing every night can be a lot of fun in the short term, and, if you are persistent, it WILL get you results However, it is also a time-sap and and energy sap too, and isn’t sustainable in the medium-long term. Therefore, the best solution is ‘holistic game’ – that is, taking an ‘always on’ …
You say ‘I tend to put everyone else’s needs above my own.’ That, in essence is your problem. Guys get very hung up on talk about ‘alpha’ and ‘beta’. But these words are not entirely helpful in terms of seduction. In seduction, what you need to be—or rather, what you need to communicate—is a strong essence of …
Many guys are disadvantaged both in terms of dating and business because they are just too damn wholesome. This is adjacent to the problem of being ‘too nice’, but it is not exactly the same thing. Let me explain. Nice or not, consider this: what is your baseline level of ethical and moral laxity? Yes, …
For the renegade playboy, life and business are one. Well, how could it be any other way? The renegade playboy is nothing if not narcissistic. He is nothing if not obsessed with himself and with his image. That may sound mercenary, or egotistical. Maybe it is. But it remains, nevertheless, the key reason why he …
Here’s the truth—shy, self-effacing men do not do well with beautiful women. Why? Because their whole demeanour screams ‘low value’. After all, if you are not at least a little in love with yourself then why should she be? There’s a girl I know, Karina. She works in one of the big department stores in …
She was beautiful, and she was lost. I met her in a fancy department store in the afternoon. Janina was her name. She was working as a personal shopper for women. I was checking out McQueen shirts when she passed me by in menswear, holding a big pile of shirts. I approached her, spoke with her …
She was beautiful, the girl – 24 years old, sleek blonde hair down her back, sitting chaste with the legs crossed. The evenings of the bachelor in London look like this. The dark bar with the glitzy red lights, Arabic cushions and throws, and the deep, dark house music. The fake (but expensive) sophistication dreamed …
On his latest podcast (dedicated to his new book Below The Belt) Tom Torero talks about how the player is necessarily selfish. Well, you can’t very well not commit to anyone, or anywhere (many true players are location independent, remember), and do exactly what you want all of the time and not be branded selfish. …
The market for men’s dating advice has grown in the last ten years. Even as the old and rightly disdained ‘PUA’ scene has been discarded in the same pop cultural dustbin that also houses The Venga Boys and speed garage, the desire of men to meet and attract girls has remained constant. Supply of good quality …
The difficulty is that we fixate on the wrong things. The difficulty is that we think that the most important thing is the beginning, whereas usually the beginning is the least important thing. Men do this. How do I approach that girl? What should my opening line be? The most-oft asked question of dating coaches is …
