Here are the top 5 ‘bad boy’ inner game mindsets you should internalise: 1. I am the star, she is supporting cast Firstly, and most importantly, you need to flip the old paradigm – that she is on a pedestal – on its head. Instead, you must come to regard yourself as the star and …
Without further ado, here are my top 10 inner game secrets. 1. Fake It ‘til You Make It DOES Work – Up To A Point ‘Fake it ‘til you make it’ gets bad press in the self-development space which is not surprising. The implication, after all, is that you can simply sit on your butt …
Timothy Gallwey first coined the term ‘inner game’ in his book The Inner Game of Tennis: The Classic Guide to the Mental Side of Peak Performance, writing that “every game is composed of two parts, an outer game and an inner game”; where the outer game is fought against another opponent and the inner game …
In celebration of the launch of my course CHARISMA & DATING ACADEMY Q4 I will be running a whole TWELVE DAYS’ worth of content on INNER GAME on YouTube from Nov 1st – Nov 12th 2021 If ‘game’ is about externals like flirting, body language and eye contact then ‘inner game’ focuses on the mindsets …
Breakups are hard, one of the hardest things that we have to go through. I have a friend who once said to me ‘even the death of my father was not as painful as some of the breakups I’ve been through’. Let that sink in for a moment.The demise of his own flesh and blood …
When you are attracted to a woman and approach her with the aim of getting a date it is important that she understands clearly what your intention is. That is to say, she must recognise that you are interested in her romantically, that you are hitting on her. There should be no confusion on this point …
The James Tusk banter bus rolls on. Right now I’m in Warsaw – once again – the wonderful Polish capital for a last-minute bootcamp training event. Over the weekend we will be joined by more students. We will also be creating content – filming those students who’ve given us their permission to do so in …
Yesterday I did a stream with James Tusk where we discussed an article ‘Sales Funnels and High Value Men – The Rise of Strategic Dating’ about a new book called 138 Dates by Rebekah Campbell. In it Campbell encourages women to be strategic about their dating and to utilise ‘sales funnels’ and vetting in order …
I saw an amusing Tweet yesterday by someone called @kitten_beloved and I liked it so much that I immediately retweeted it. Kitten had herself retweeted a picture of Elon Musk with his girlfriend Grimes originally shared by someone called @gasstationbarbie who had written above it ‘what do they have in common like what do they …
I went to the kiosk just down from my apartment in Berlin to buy coffee. The owners – a Turkish family – know me since I’ve been coming in sporadically for six years. They know me only by sight since I don’t speak Turkish and my German is negligible. Today, the glamorous matriarch was behind …
