There was an interesting tweet yesterday from my good buddy @PUA_DATING_TIPS who said this: On a deeper level, you are seducing every person that you meet to the concept of “YOU”. Personal branding that @Troy7Laws frequently speaks about is seduction on a MASS SCALE. Of course, he was right. ETS is a super smart guy, …
The other day I tweeted that everything is about sales. I was half right. The ‘everything is about sales’ trope is not a new one—I didn’t invent it. I tweeted it, as I have in the past, simply because ‘sales’ (the discipline) has been close to my heart since I first became a telesales operator in …
You need something to sell. I do too. We all do. I am using the term ‘sell’ in its broadest possible sense, by the way. It depends on what your immediate priority is, of course. But you need a unique selling point in every area of your life. In dating, you need to have a USP – …
If you haven’t heard it yet, I strongly encourage you to listen to my podcast from last Friday, which was an interview with daygame legend PAUL JANKA. Paul and I had a great chat about game, sex, love and the meaning of life itself! You can hear the podcast on my SoundCloud page here, or on iTunes here. …
If there’s a question that gets asked of game writers and coaches more than any other, it’s this: What is your pick-up line? Yeah, for real. Dude thinks that all it takes to bag a hottie is this one incredible, indestructible sentence. This phantasmagorical formulation of words that is at once so compelling, so magnetic, …
The terms introvert and extrovert are bandied around a great deal but I’m not sure how useful they are. I’m basically an introvert—I certainly was when I was a kid—but years in the game, as well as years of working in sales, have forced me to develop extrovert tendencies. These days I can walk into …
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Publication day for a new book is always a little strange. This is the fifth time I’ve experienced it and I don’t think I’ll ever get used to it. You see the process of writing is very solitary. Most of the time I’m holed up in a room on my own somewhere. The location doesn’t …
Below is an extract from my soon-to-be-released new book on game and dating for the 40+ guy…. ****** So you hit 40—congratulations. Or maybe you passed that particular milestone a few years ago. You reached a summit in life: up here the land looks different while remaining strangely the same. What to do? You …
I frequently read posts on seduction forums where guys bemoan the fact that they are introverts. “If only I was like on of those extroverts”, is the subtext. “Then I would be self-confident and able to walk right up to girls and tell them they’re cute, flirt with them, pull them. But no. I’m one …
