Several guys have asked me recently about gym game—is it possible, is it advisable, and if so how best to go about it? To answer the first two points, yes it’s possible and yes it’s advisable—depending on the set-up in your particular gym. Like most men who are reading this—I hope—I go to the gym regularly, and …
One of the chief difficulties with entering into the project of self-improvement, as is often (rightly) recommended to men who are hoping to improve their prospects in life, is that constantly working on and thinking about oneself can cause an excess of self-awareness that is often counterproductive. In the arena of seduction in particular too …
When a man gets into game it is natural that his first concern is with the emotions of the women with whom he interacts. You spit a bad line on your approach and she’s angry. You tease her too hard and she gets upset. Or you settle into a relationship but she is jealous and …
Yes, we all want to get good at meeting and attracting beautiful women, and perhaps after some practice we develop a modicum of skill at it. Maybe we strike it lucky and manage to get a hottie or two into bed. That’s great, but if you’re anything like I was in my early days of …
Game, like any other discipline, is all about pushing your boundaries. You must never reach a comfort zone. If you do, then you are not hitting your full potential, and you must deliberately seek to make yourself uncomfortable again in order to keep getting the best results you’re capable of. I’m talking in particular about …
For many men, scoring no-strings sex with a hot girl is the pinnacle of game. The hotter the girl and the easier the sex, the better. This is not to say that guys don’t want to get into relationships or to foster a deeper connection at a later stage, merely that certain times, uncomplicated mutual …
There’s one thing that you must always do when you interact with a hot girl, especially if you’re in Western city like London or NYC and that is ‘flip it.’ I’ve been giving girls ‘the flip’ since I got serious about game back in the early 2000’s and it has never let me down yet. …
In London in the night-time you will see them. The men with serious faces. They are dressed in dark jeans and blazers, leather jackets or parkas. Some of them are in bands. Others work in finance. Many are criminals. They are the cocaine men. These men hang arounds the clubs at 2am, standing by bar, …
Beware of nice girls. Just as there is a problem with nice guys, so there is a problem with nice girls too. You need to be wary of girls who are too nice straight off the bat. For every girl who pulls the stone-cold bitch act to deflect unwanted attention from men, there is another …
Blackdragon has a great piece on the benefits of dating younger and older here. But is it actually easier to pull younger or older women? Reading the article got me to thinking about some of my own recent experiences. As with most things in game, the answer is somewhat counterintuitive in that it is on balance easier to pull …
