Stop Stealing ‘Our’ Women!

This is an excerpt from my forthcoming book about monogamy v. the playboy lifestyle. It concerns the popular trad con / beta accusation that players are stealing women that should be left for them.

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Of course, what all of this really comes down to is fear—fear on the part of the trad con (or beta male) that the playboy will ‘steal all of the woman’ so that the trad con has none.

Or at least, fear that the player will taint the girls so that they are spoiled by the time the trad con gets his hands on them.

This is based on the (unproven) idea that if a woman has above a certain number of sexual partners then she will become a bad human being, tainted by the sex that she’s had and therefore ‘unable to bond’ and to raise children properly.

This vision of a woman ‘spoiled’ by sexual indulgence is analogous to the Victorian idea of the ‘fallen woman’. It is a heavily moralistic—and unscientific.

It is based on the quaint idea that morality is a fixed thing which, once tampered with, can never again be returned to its former pristine state.

Morality isn’t the point

But the underlying motive for all trad con obsessions on this topic is the same—a need to ‘mate guard’—that is, look after ‘our women’ and prevent nasty, bad players from coming in and swooping them up.

While this attitude may seem understandable, it’s not one that you should ever consider adopting yourself. At least, not if you want to get Renegade Playboy good at game. 

Think about it like this. If you were truly an ‘alpha male’ with nothing at all to fear in the sexual marketplace—since you rule the roost and can get any girl you want—would you spend any time worrying about others attempting to ‘steal your women?’

No, of course not. Because you would already be confident that anyone you were dating couldn’t be led astray by another man.

And equally, if you didn’t have a girl you’d be confident you could simply turn up in any town and get one.

A thought like ‘leave them for us’ simply wouldn’t enter your head.

‘But Troy,’ you might be saying now, ‘I’m not that guy. I AM worried about losing my girl to alpha predators. And I’m not confident that I could just rock up to a new town and meet someone.’

OK. I understand. But here are two things to think about.

One. As I’ve said many times before, there’s no point in wasting your energy moaning about guys in the top 20% (or whatever it is) who are allegedly getting all of the action. Far better for you to do absolutely everything in your power to get into that top percentile yourself.

Two. Mindset is incredibly important. And here’s the thing. If you have a mindset where you are telling yourself that you are not one of those ‘special guys’, that you are not in the top percentile of men, then guess what: you’re not, and you won’t be any time soon. 

It has been said that one of the hallmarks of a great player is ‘irrational confidence’, and it’s absolutely true. Indeed, the same could be said of any successful man. It’s far better to go into a situation with supreme, ridiculous confidence even when this is not grounded in any objective reality, rather than moping around like a loser.

Scarcity

Another important point to note is that ‘leave them for us™’ demonstrates supreme scarcity mentality.

A friend of mine is a well-known player who has recently been meeting new girls in Russia. He has been sent messages from guys in the US and across the rest of the world imploring him not to ‘take our women’.

Of course, this is patently absurd.

For one thing, the simple dictates of geography mean that the women he is meeting will definitely not be the ‘same’ ones that the guy in Bumfuck Town, Arizona is shooting for. They are in a different city in a different country many thousands of kilometres away.

But even if an alpha player were operating on your turf so successfully that it was seriously impacting on your ability to meet new girls, do you really think it’s a masculine response to ask him politely if he wouldn’t mind stopping?

The truly powerful man of old would challenge the alpha, either forcing him to leave the territory through violence, or by eliminating him altogether.

Of course, I am not recommending brute force and murder. But the beauty of the modern world means that these things are not even necessary.

Put simply, our ability to move around—to pursue a global rather than local market—means that if you are not getting the results you want with girls in one area then you can simply go elsewhere.

Those guys sitting in their bedrooms criticising my friend—have they travelled to Russia to meet girls there? Have they hell!

To try to prevent someone else succeeding at something which, really, you’d like to succeed at yourself, is rank laziness and worse, it is mean-spirited. You are saying ‘I can’t be bothered to do that myself, but can you please stop doing it so that I don’t feel about my own inertia?’

This is pathetic in the extreme and deserves to be called out.

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