The terms introvert and extrovert are bandied around a great deal but I’m not sure how useful they are. I’m basically an introvert—I certainly was when I was a kid—but years in the game, as well as years of working in sales, have forced me to develop extrovert tendencies. These days I can walk into …
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Publication day for a new book is always a little strange. This is the fifth time I’ve experienced it and I don’t think I’ll ever get used to it. You see the process of writing is very solitary. Most of the time I’m holed up in a room on my own somewhere. The location doesn’t …
Below is an extract from my soon-to-be-released new book on game and dating for the 40+ guy…. ****** So you hit 40—congratulations. Or maybe you passed that particular milestone a few years ago. You reached a summit in life: up here the land looks different while remaining strangely the same. What to do? You …
I frequently read posts on seduction forums where guys bemoan the fact that they are introverts. “If only I was like on of those extroverts”, is the subtext. “Then I would be self-confident and able to walk right up to girls and tell them they’re cute, flirt with them, pull them. But no. I’m one …
Several guys have asked me recently about gym game—is it possible, is it advisable, and if so how best to go about it? To answer the first two points, yes it’s possible and yes it’s advisable—depending on the set-up in your particular gym. Like most men who are reading this—I hope—I go to the gym regularly, and …
One of the chief difficulties with entering into the project of self-improvement, as is often (rightly) recommended to men who are hoping to improve their prospects in life, is that constantly working on and thinking about oneself can cause an excess of self-awareness that is often counterproductive. In the arena of seduction in particular too …
When a man gets into game it is natural that his first concern is with the emotions of the women with whom he interacts. You spit a bad line on your approach and she’s angry. You tease her too hard and she gets upset. Or you settle into a relationship but she is jealous and …
Yes, we all want to get good at meeting and attracting beautiful women, and perhaps after some practice we develop a modicum of skill at it. Maybe we strike it lucky and manage to get a hottie or two into bed. That’s great, but if you’re anything like I was in my early days of …
Game, like any other discipline, is all about pushing your boundaries. You must never reach a comfort zone. If you do, then you are not hitting your full potential, and you must deliberately seek to make yourself uncomfortable again in order to keep getting the best results you’re capable of. I’m talking in particular about …
