You say ‘I tend to put everyone else’s needs above my own.’ That, in essence is your problem. Guys get very hung up on talk about ‘alpha’ and ‘beta’. But these words are not entirely helpful in terms of seduction. In seduction, what you need to be—or rather, what you need to communicate—is a strong essence of …
Many guys are disadvantaged both in terms of dating and business because they are just too damn wholesome. This is adjacent to the problem of being ‘too nice’, but it is not exactly the same thing. Let me explain. Nice or not, consider this: what is your baseline level of ethical and moral laxity? Yes, …
For the renegade playboy, life and business are one. Well, how could it be any other way? The renegade playboy is nothing if not narcissistic. He is nothing if not obsessed with himself and with his image. That may sound mercenary, or egotistical. Maybe it is. But it remains, nevertheless, the key reason why he …
Here’s the truth—shy, self-effacing men do not do well with beautiful women. Why? Because their whole demeanour screams ‘low value’. After all, if you are not at least a little in love with yourself then why should she be? There’s a girl I know, Karina. She works in one of the big department stores in …
The difficulty is that we fixate on the wrong things. The difficulty is that we think that the most important thing is the beginning, whereas usually the beginning is the least important thing. Men do this. How do I approach that girl? What should my opening line be? The most-oft asked question of dating coaches is …
There was an interesting tweet yesterday from my good buddy @PUA_DATING_TIPS who said this: On a deeper level, you are seducing every person that you meet to the concept of “YOU”. Personal branding that @Troy7Laws frequently speaks about is seduction on a MASS SCALE. Of course, he was right. ETS is a super smart guy, …
The other day I tweeted that everything is about sales. I was half right. The ‘everything is about sales’ trope is not a new one—I didn’t invent it. I tweeted it, as I have in the past, simply because ‘sales’ (the discipline) has been close to my heart since I first became a telesales operator in …
You need something to sell. I do too. We all do. I am using the term ‘sell’ in its broadest possible sense, by the way. It depends on what your immediate priority is, of course. But you need a unique selling point in every area of your life. In dating, you need to have a USP – …
If you haven’t heard it yet, I strongly encourage you to listen to my podcast from last Friday, which was an interview with daygame legend PAUL JANKA. Paul and I had a great chat about game, sex, love and the meaning of life itself! You can hear the podcast on my SoundCloud page here, or on iTunes here. …
If there’s a question that gets asked of game writers and coaches more than any other, it’s this: What is your pick-up line? Yeah, for real. Dude thinks that all it takes to bag a hottie is this one incredible, indestructible sentence. This phantasmagorical formulation of words that is at once so compelling, so magnetic, …
