My new book STILL IN THE GAME – HOW MEN OVER 40 GET RESULTS DATING BEAUTIFUL WOMEN is available on Amazon NOW (a day early!) Kindle version available now, paperback to follow soon. Click here to get your copy NOW Thanks to everyone who’s supported me through the writing of this – I hope you …
If you haven’t already then you must start planning for 2018 right now. There’s not a moment to lose. Why? Because January 1st 2018 is too late. Planning then is like preparing for a race when the starting gun has already gone off. And what good is that? People complain about the period between Christmas and …
I had the train journey from hell today. Eight hours on from Cornwall to London in an absurdly packed carriage. By rights the journey should take five, but what with billions of people (seemingly) escaping the provinces for London there were severe delays. I was lucky enough to get a seat—many didn’t, and I felt …
Below is an excerpt from my upcoming book on game for 40+ men. Here I discuss fashion, and some general principles that I observe when choosing clothes. ****** Although style in theory incorporates your overall ‘look’ I’m talking about fashion here and keeping this separate to grooming, which is about your hair, skin, beard and …
In your darkest hour, when you are most alone, when you feel friendless, when hope is little more than a memory, there is only one thing you can do: carry on There is a saying. It goes ‘when you’re going through hell, keep going.’ It’s all you can do. Whatever lifestyle you choose there will be times …
Below is an extract from my soon-to-be-released new book on game and dating for the 40+ guy…. ****** So you hit 40—congratulations. Or maybe you passed that particular milestone a few years ago. You reached a summit in life: up here the land looks different while remaining strangely the same. What to do? You …
It is hard for me to think of an author who has had a greater influence on me throughout my life than George Orwell. When I was a kid I read Animal Farm and then all of the essays very early on. I remember wanting to read 1984 for ages, and my dad telling me that …
Readers who follow me on Twitter will doubtless be aware that I often retweet the mischievous, erotic, literary and sometimes cryptic utterances of a shadowy internet figure who calls himself Dr Ernst Gräfenberg (the pseudonym is taken from the man who first discovered the G Spot). While Dr Gräfenberg is not a pickup artist …
I’ve just uploaded a new episode of The Modern Casanova podcast called The Endgame of Game. You can listen to it here Game is now reaching middle age with many of the original players in their late thirties, forties or even older. Does that mean a generation of men who won’t settle down and will …
There was a plastic carrier bag of vomit in the cupboard beside my bed. It had been there for over a week. The stench of it thickened up the air in my room. I was in bed. The sheets were dirty, of course. They’d remained unwashed for many weeks. I was half-awake but I was in a …
