Dating advice frequently tells men to beware hankering after that one special girl—and to cultivate a mentality of abundance. Sage advice—the problem that many young men face (and I for one certainly did) is believing that opportunities are one’s limited, that girls are somehow scarce. That getting rejected by one beautiful girl somehow diminishes your opportunities for sex with others …
I was first introduced to James Holt over a year ago when he contacted me for a project that he was working on at the time. Then, when we both started doubling down on Twitter (at the beginning of 2018) we became online buddies, meeting up in person for the first time in Budapest this …
Eye contact is without doubt the dedicated renegade playboy’s go-to in his quest intimacy with beautiful women. It turns out that all that dating advice of yore—from 90’s ‘lad’ mags, problems pages, and your mum—was correct in this particular: strong, confident eye contact is exceptionally potent in producing pantie tsunamis. Just not for the reasons that …
One of the most important components of a man’s game is audacity. You must develop an attitude of audaciousness to get girls. Game is, in essence, a revocation of social niceties. If I approach a girl coming out of the tube, or on a busy street, or if I interrupt her in a bar as …
One of the main emotions that men have to deal with in picking up women is resentment. This is more pernicious than it might sound. The book Alcoholics Anonymous states that ‘resentment is the number one offender. It destroys more alcoholics than anything else.’ The idea is that if someone annoys you and you allow them to …
I am obsessed with personal branding. I write about it, I create podcasts and video content about it, I post on Instagram about it. I talk about it to friends and business colleagues. Personal branding is my THING. Now, if you were to ask me why I am so attracted to it, I would probably …
Let’s be under no illusions here: if you want to achieve success in the dating arena as a guy then how you look matters – a lot. There is a kind of doublethink at play sometimes as guys have this idea that women are less looks-orientated than they are. Now, in part that’s true (more …
When I was 27 years old I was an alcoholic. I’d drunk everything away—-my university education, relationships with my family, my career, friends etc. I was reduced to living in a single room in Manchester with the curtains drawn and empty bottles of wine on the floor around me. I was only sustained by the …
Clubbing every night can be a lot of fun in the short term, and, if you are persistent, it WILL get you results However, it is also a time-sap and and energy sap too, and isn’t sustainable in the medium-long term. Therefore, the best solution is ‘holistic game’ – that is, taking an ‘always on’ …
There are good arguments both for having a website for your personal brand, and not having one. Both sides have a lot to say that makes sense. But in the end yes, you absolutely should have your own website. Why? Well, let’s first consider the opposing arguments. People who say you should have your own …
