In life it’s very easy to neglect all the good things that we have in order to dwell on the negatives. This can definitely be a fault of mine, even though I am interested in self-development and strive to live a life that brings happiness to others as well as myself. A way to combat this …
Ruthless self-analysis is essential to achieve the freedom you crave. Why? Because it is only when you fully understand yourself and know what it is you really want that you will be in a position to get it. Self-analysis doesn’t sound that hard and it isn’t, but the world around us makes it difficult. Why? Because …
Understand this, if you are lazy and fearful then your life will never transcend that of the ordinary man. Perhaps you are OK with that. Perhaps an ordinary, mediocre life is all that you want. If so then that’s absolutely fine. But my message is not for you. Because I am unable to countenance such …
I frequently read posts on seduction forums where guys bemoan the fact that they are introverts. “If only I was like on of those extroverts”, is the subtext. “Then I would be self-confident and able to walk right up to girls and tell them they’re cute, flirt with them, pull them. But no. I’m one …
Several guys have asked me recently about gym game—is it possible, is it advisable, and if so how best to go about it? To answer the first two points, yes it’s possible and yes it’s advisable—depending on the set-up in your particular gym. Like most men who are reading this—I hope—I go to the gym regularly, and …
Most people don’t actually want to be rich, they just want the experiences that the rich guy has. In today’s world this is achievable without huge reserves of money, since the internet has opened up huge possibilities to us. Tom Torero has often said that AirBnB is like having your own international property portfolio, while …
Our actions, the way we think and the way we perceive reality are all strongly influenced by cultural conditioning. Perhaps this seems obvious, but spending just a month outside London in Europe really brought this home for me. As regular readers will be aware, I’ve been outside of the UK for the last few weeks. …
I start a new corporate gig on Monday. I’m not particularly looking forward to it. I’ve been out of that environment for a couple of months now and it’s been great. Plus we’re now approaching high summer in Europe, the girls are all wearing butt-revealing cut-off denim shorts and there are a lot of people …
Yes, we all want to get good at meeting and attracting beautiful women, and perhaps after some practice we develop a modicum of skill at it. Maybe we strike it lucky and manage to get a hottie or two into bed. That’s great, but if you’re anything like I was in my early days of …
Glyn, a cool guy who I often chat to over at Twitter asked me if I frequently go out to bars and clubs alone, if so how I managed myself, and whether I walk around all night. It’s a good question, and one I’ve not really addressed in article form before. The answer to the …
