Your Comfort Zone Will Kill You
Your comfort zone will kill you. So kill your comfort zone.
‘STILL IN THE GAME’ Kindle Version Available On Amazon NOW!
My new book STILL IN THE GAME – HOW MEN OVER 40 GET RESULTS DATING BEAUTIFUL WOMEN is available on Amazon NOW (a day early!) Kindle version available now, paperback to follow soon. Click here to get your copy NOW Thanks to everyone who’s supported me through the writing of this – I hope you …
The Personality Trait That May Be Hurting Your Chances With Women
One of the chief difficulties with entering into the project of self-improvement, as is often (rightly) recommended to men who are hoping to improve their prospects in life, is that constantly working on and thinking about oneself can cause an excess of self-awareness that is often counterproductive. In the arena of seduction in particular too …
How To Go Out To A Club Solo To Pick Up Girls
Glyn, a cool guy who I often chat to over at Twitter asked me if I frequently go out to bars and clubs alone, if so how I managed myself, and whether I walk around all night. It’s a good question, and one I’ve not really addressed in article form before. The answer to the …
Why Being Ridiculously Self Confident Is A Great Way to Attract Girls
In the end, game, with women and in life, is about nothing less than challenging the dominant narrative that surrounds you. And you thought it was just about chatting up a few girls, right? Perhaps I’m getting a little deep and reflective for a Saturday evening. But the more I consider the matter the more …
Use The “One Strike” Rule To Improve Your Dating Life
When you are interacting with women, and in particular with a new woman who you’ve just met, you must think carefully, decide how much you are willing to put up with, and ensure that you are not being taken for a ride. I would like to propose you adopt the “one strike” rule—that is, a …
How To Be A Modern Casanova
Seducer, gambler, necromancer, swindler, Good Samaritan, spy, swashbuckler, self-made gentleman, entrepreneur, wit, poet, translator, philosopher and general bon vivant, Giacomo Casanova was not only the most notorious lover the Western World has ever known, but also a storyteller of the first order. This, from the back of my well-thumbed copy of Casanova’s The Story of …
Can You Be A Hedonist And A Stoic At The Same Time?
One of the key questions of my life has been whether to select hedonism or stoicism as my governing philosophy. Even today the jury is still out, and I have a tendency to flit between the two. If, for the sake of this article, we are to define hedonism as the privileging of pleasure above all else then …
The Power of the 90 Minute Nap For the Corporate Nightgamer
As anyone who follows my writing will be aware, I am not a ‘game’ purist dedicated to any particular niche. In my view, in today’s dating market, if a guy wants to optimise his results he really needs to adopt an ‘always on’ approach, which basically means hitting up girls in a variety of ways …
How Soon Should You ‘Next’ A Hot Girl?
Guys will often come to me and ask what they should do about this or that girl. Maybe they’re texting and she’s blowing hot and cold. Maybe they’ve been out on a date and she’s stopped replying to messages since. Or worse, maybe it’s some girl they haven’t even approached yet who appears to be …