Let’s turn our attention for a moment to developing ‘real’ inner game. By this I mean we need to go further than a few trite platitudes worthy of Instagram, because not everyone is fortunate enough to start from a ‘good-enough’ baseline. Many guys – myself included – who come to this space for advice and …
In celebration of the launch of my course CHARISMA & DATING ACADEMY Q4 I will be running a whole TWELVE DAYS’ worth of content on INNER GAME on YouTube from Nov 1st – Nov 12th 2021 If ‘game’ is about externals like flirting, body language and eye contact then ‘inner game’ focuses on the mindsets …
There is a paradox – life is short and so you should go for the things that you want. But if you’re too ready to rule people, experiences and things out because they don’t quite measure up you risk missing out something you would have really enjoyed. I was working with a client in Warsaw …
You say ‘I tend to put everyone else’s needs above my own.’ That, in essence is your problem. Guys get very hung up on talk about ‘alpha’ and ‘beta’. But these words are not entirely helpful in terms of seduction. In seduction, what you need to be—or rather, what you need to communicate—is a strong essence of …
Many guys are disadvantaged both in terms of dating and business because they are just too damn wholesome. This is adjacent to the problem of being ‘too nice’, but it is not exactly the same thing. Let me explain. Nice or not, consider this: what is your baseline level of ethical and moral laxity? Yes, …
Procrastination is a real and present danger to your business and to your life. Fortunately you can kill it easily. This article explains how. First off, let’s have a think about procrastination itself. What is it? As far as a definition is concerned, procrastination is basically putting off something you’d rather not do. Sometimes you might put …
The problem with the safe route is that it may not be the safe route anymore. In fact it almost certainly isn’t. We all get stuck in our comfort zones. We all have this idea of who we are, or what our lives should look like, of the things we need around us to be, …
There is no doubt that listening is the most important skill you can possibly learn. This is true whether your goal is to get great results in the dating arena, enjoy huge rewards in business, or grow your social circle. Why is listening so important? Simply because at base listening is information gathering—research, in other words. And …
One of the big problems with society as it has been set up to this point it that it makes supplicants of us. When it comes to getting ahead and building a career that leads to personal freedom, we feel like we have to ask permission for everything. Why is this? It’s because in the …
Always be actively for something, or actively against it. Yes, you will alienate some, but you will win many more over. Being neutral is synonymous with being forgettable. The above quote, about being actively for or against something, was my most popular in the last seven days, receiving something like 17k impressions and 240 ‘engagements’ …
