In the end, game, with women and in life, is about nothing less than challenging the dominant narrative that surrounds you. And you thought it was just about chatting up a few girls, right? Perhaps I’m getting a little deep and reflective for a Saturday evening. But the more I consider the matter the more …
I was recently at a dinner party in London, held by a friend of mine. The guests were mostly male but there were a couple of girls there too—an inebriated Kentuckian who left before the meal and a reasonably attractive Swedish girl Jina, a flatmate of our host’s. Also at the party was a friend of mine, …
When I consider my journey in the game there are some moments I’m amazed at and proud of and a good many more that make me cringe. Fortunately a lot of the mistakes I’ve made are avoidable and luckily just for you I list five of the most glaring ones below 1. Not starting soon …
I like incremental improvements. Or rather, what I like is taking a particular skillset and then working on it every day. This, I find, takes me to a higher level more efficiently than the ‘crash course’ approach where, by applying huge focus in a short period of time, you attempt to achieve mastery. There are …
I only recently discovered Black Label Logic, economist, writer, sexual market theorist and rising manosphere star when he appeared on the Mark Baxter podcast Click on that link if you didn’t catch the show—it’s a great episode and as good an introduction as any to BLL’s take on the red pill as any other. I’m a sucker …
When you are interacting with women, and in particular with a new woman who you’ve just met, you must think carefully, decide how much you are willing to put up with, and ensure that you are not being taken for a ride. I would like to propose you adopt the “one strike” rule—that is, a …
Seducer, gambler, necromancer, swindler, Good Samaritan, spy, swashbuckler, self-made gentleman, entrepreneur, wit, poet, translator, philosopher and general bon vivant, Giacomo Casanova was not only the most notorious lover the Western World has ever known, but also a storyteller of the first order. This, from the back of my well-thumbed copy of Casanova’s The Story of …
One of the key questions of my life has been whether to select hedonism or stoicism as my governing philosophy. Even today the jury is still out, and I have a tendency to flit between the two. If, for the sake of this article, we are to define hedonism as the privileging of pleasure above all else then …
As anyone who follows my writing will be aware, I am not a ‘game’ purist dedicated to any particular niche. In my view, in today’s dating market, if a guy wants to optimise his results he really needs to adopt an ‘always on’ approach, which basically means hitting up girls in a variety of ways …
Guys will often come to me and ask what they should do about this or that girl. Maybe they’re texting and she’s blowing hot and cold. Maybe they’ve been out on a date and she’s stopped replying to messages since. Or worse, maybe it’s some girl they haven’t even approached yet who appears to be …
