Our actions, the way we think and the way we perceive reality are all strongly influenced by cultural conditioning. Perhaps this seems obvious, but spending just a month outside London in Europe really brought this home for me. As regular readers will be aware, I’ve been outside of the UK for the last few weeks. …
I start a new corporate gig on Monday. I’m not particularly looking forward to it. I’ve been out of that environment for a couple of months now and it’s been great. Plus we’re now approaching high summer in Europe, the girls are all wearing butt-revealing cut-off denim shorts and there are a lot of people …
One of the chief difficulties with entering into the project of self-improvement, as is often (rightly) recommended to men who are hoping to improve their prospects in life, is that constantly working on and thinking about oneself can cause an excess of self-awareness that is often counterproductive. In the arena of seduction in particular too …
When a man gets into game it is natural that his first concern is with the emotions of the women with whom he interacts. You spit a bad line on your approach and she’s angry. You tease her too hard and she gets upset. Or you settle into a relationship but she is jealous and …
Yes, we all want to get good at meeting and attracting beautiful women, and perhaps after some practice we develop a modicum of skill at it. Maybe we strike it lucky and manage to get a hottie or two into bed. That’s great, but if you’re anything like I was in my early days of …
Glyn, a cool guy who I often chat to over at Twitter asked me if I frequently go out to bars and clubs alone, if so how I managed myself, and whether I walk around all night. It’s a good question, and one I’ve not really addressed in article form before. The answer to the …
Game, like any other discipline, is all about pushing your boundaries. You must never reach a comfort zone. If you do, then you are not hitting your full potential, and you must deliberately seek to make yourself uncomfortable again in order to keep getting the best results you’re capable of. I’m talking in particular about …
For many men, scoring no-strings sex with a hot girl is the pinnacle of game. The hotter the girl and the easier the sex, the better. This is not to say that guys don’t want to get into relationships or to foster a deeper connection at a later stage, merely that certain times, uncomplicated mutual …
There are times when you just have to go off by yourself to think. The first time I realised this I was eighteen years old. I’d just finished college. It was our last day. The next step was university. All my college peers were off celebrating somewhere. I was alone, because I’ve always liked being …
There’s one thing that you must always do when you interact with a hot girl, especially if you’re in Western city like London or NYC and that is ‘flip it.’ I’ve been giving girls ‘the flip’ since I got serious about game back in the early 2000’s and it has never let me down yet. …
