One of the key questions of my life has been whether to select hedonism or stoicism as my governing philosophy. Even today the jury is still out, and I have a tendency to flit between the two. If, for the sake of this article, we are to define hedonism as the privileging of pleasure above all else then …
As anyone who follows my writing will be aware, I am not a ‘game’ purist dedicated to any particular niche. In my view, in today’s dating market, if a guy wants to optimise his results he really needs to adopt an ‘always on’ approach, which basically means hitting up girls in a variety of ways …
Guys will often come to me and ask what they should do about this or that girl. Maybe they’re texting and she’s blowing hot and cold. Maybe they’ve been out on a date and she’s stopped replying to messages since. Or worse, maybe it’s some girl they haven’t even approached yet who appears to be …
Your life would be a thousand times better if you thought less. Right now, you know how it goes. A decision comes up, something on the horizon. Perhaps you need to choose between two job offers. Maybe there are two girls you like and you have to decide which one to go out with at …
Do you want to enjoy the playboy lifestyle, but you’re not getting the results with women you’d like, or feel that you should be getting? If so then read on, because this article is for you. One major problem faced by most players at one time or another is lack of motivation. When faced with …
A lot of guys feel that they have to be a certain physical type — tall, good looking, chiseled etc. — or emulate a particular conversational approach in order to be successful with women, but this is not the case. I have recently been privileged to observe the game of two friends of mine, both …
Men should remember that standing one’s ground—with women in particular—is a central tenet of masculinity. Far too many guys allow women to get away with irritating nonsense, or worse, borderline-abusive behaviour for fear of missing out on sex. This can happen when a man is approaching women, dating, or in a full-blown relationship or marriage. …
With the worthy exception of touch (kino), eye contact is without doubt the dedicated poon-plunderer’s weapon of choice in his quest for vaginal Valhalla. It turns out that all that dating advice of yore – from magazines, problems pages, and so on – was correct in this particular way: strong, confident eye contact is exceptionally …
As a man looking to meet and attract women it is imperative that you internalise and understand this fundamental fact about sexual market value—if she’s young (between 18 and 30), slim, and even a little bit attractive, her SMV outstrips yours significantly. For this reason, the “playing field” is not even. Just because you were …
A tool that is incredibly popular in self-development is “fake it ’til you make it”—that is, affect the external trappings of success until it becomes second nature and you generate actual success. But too many people do the first part and not the second. If you pretend to have “made it” while not actively working to …
