Right now we are seeing a marked swing from individualism to collectivism in the men’s self-development space. This seems to me a shame – for reasons I’ll expand upon here – but more than that, it is directly contrary to the original ethos of the sphere, and for that reason it should be called out. …
Just a brief update to let you know that due to popular demand my book CUCKED (about monogamy) is now available for Kindle on Amazon. You can purchase the Kindle edition for just $3.99 or read it for free if you have Kindle Unlimited. In addition, the book with be free on Amazon this weekend …
‘Spinning plates’, if you don’t know, is when a guy has more than one girl on his roster at the same time. More than one girl he’s sleeping with, that is. In most cases it works like this. The guy begins dating girl A (who he’s met through daygame, Tinder, whatever) but he doesn’t get …
I don’t like talking about Twitter / online gossip. I also don’t particularly like talking about ‘the red pill’, since the term has become so tainted by various associations over the past few years. However, it seems to me that recent events indicate the manosphere is experiencing difficulties, and that the choice for men is …
When you are immersed in the world of dating and seduction, which presumably a great many readers of this blog are, you tend to put a great deal of pressure on yourself in terms of the quality of your approaches. After all, you’ve read the books and you’ve seen the videos. You’ve heard of something …
Does sex addiction exist? I dunno. We could argue the toss (pun intended), but the dude I ran into yesterday in London’s Soho seemed about as stuck on it (sex) as . . . as I was about five years ago. Matty – we’ll call him by that completely inappropriate, made-up name – was jonesing …
As you may have noticed, right now I’m in the middle of an ‘infields’ project, by which I mean I am shooting videos of me chatting to girls and then putting them on YouTube (with all identities concealed, of course). I don’t know how much longer I’ll continue doing this for, and I don’t know …
Life is easy, until it’s not. And then all of a sudden you’ll have some stupid-ass decision to make and you’ll have literally no idea what to do. And so you’ll call your friends. After all, what could be better than getting some input from a ‘third party’. ‘You lack perspective,’ they say. ‘You need …
OK, it’s late and I’m sitting up in bed wearing a Patrick Bateman-style cold compress mask typing this, so I’m going to keep things brief. But this is a topic which deserves much more in-depth consideration, so no doubt I’ll return to it again soon. In the past couple of years we’ve seen a marked …
This is going to read like an epic ‘first-world problem rant’ because, well, because it’s an epic first-world problem rant. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. Actually, to even call this a ‘first-world problem’ is kinda insulting since it’s really a difficulty encountered by only a very few people who are either (i) very rich …
