Traits Of A Great Player

We’re in Russia. I’m with playboy friend. I’m helping out with a project.

It’s damn cold

The snow is coming down outside in fluffy white clumps in the courtyard outside.

Every so often we run over to the big, brightly-lit shopping mall across the road to talk to girls.

And then we run back again to the Dostoyevsky-gloom of our apartment building.

It’s a strange life, for sure. It’s interesting—and educational—to spend time travelling with a serious player. Because inevitably the mindset of that person affects you, gets into your skull—in a good way.

And here’s the thing. No one was ever successful at any damn thing without working for it.

And what makes you work for it is that you really, really want it.

If you don’t really, really want it then you can forget about it, in the end.

Because you’re just not going to put in the work that you have to in order to get good.

Sure, you can fake it for a bit.

But in the longer term, you’re going to falter and burn out.

As I’ve often said, I used to be pretty good at game even before I learned ‘game’.

This was back in Manchester when I was in my twenties and I would go to clubs every night of the week, hunting for girls.

I had no knowledge of female psychology. I had no clue about the way men and women really relate.

But it didn’t matter. I approached anyway. I was relentless.

My testosterone was off the chart and I was horny the whole time. And that made me crave intimacy with a piquancy that I can still recall even now, even as my libido slowly fades to a level where it’s a whole lot more manageable.

(We’ll talk more on that another time).

But my ‘results’ were good. I dated a number of very pretty girls. I dated enough pretty girls that other guys were jealous of me—even other guys who were jacked, ripped, rich, successful etc.

How did I get those pretty girls when they didn’t?

Because I asked out a lot of pretty girls.

And I never gave up.

(I don’t mean I never gave up with each individual girl. That would be creepy. I mean I never gave up with my quest for ladies in general).

Tenacity, then, can be a great thing. It can really help you a great deal in getting what you want.

Because—as is often said on Instagram memes—you only really lose when you give up.

And that can be applied beyond dating to business, fitness, a acquisition of a skill and so on.

The Traits of a Great Player

A great player has a number of traits that add up to his success. I have many of these myself, but it is sometimes easier to discern them in another.

In no particular order, these are the things you need to cultivate:

• Tenacity / persistence
• Extreme positivity / upbeat attitude
• Abundance mentality
• The ability to make a plan and stick to it
• Resilience
• Able to brush off rejection easily
• Unfazed by setbacks
• Doesn’t overthink things
• Willingness to withstand suboptimal conditions (like Russia in February) for the good of a larger goal

I could write volumes more on each of these. But if you make it your business to work on each of these areas, and you are approaching regularly as part of your ‘networking with intent’ plan, then your success rate in the dating market will improve considerably.

You can currently buy all 8 of my game / dating books in a bundle called The Renegade Dating Blueprint for just $35 (total value $250) here.

And you should also check out the brand-new course by kickboxing champion, multi-millionaire playboy with a harem of 7 girls Andrew Tate, called How To Get Girls.

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