Renegade Dating: How Many Daygame Approaches Are Best?

If you are doing daygame regularly and not approaching girls as soon as you leave the house, then you are doing yourself a disservice. This is also true if you’re not doing at least five approaches each time you go out.

It’s strange how, even now, I can find myself reticent when I head outside for a day game session. I usually approach the first girl easily enough, but after that my progress can be slow.

I procrastinate, I let opportunities go by. I don’t push myself.

In order to track my results I always keep a note of each approach on the notes app on my phone. I later transfer these to a spreadsheet. This gives me a useful snapshot of my progress.

One thing comes through very strongly: I often don’t start getting any real traction (or indeed attraction) until after the fifth set.

So consistent is this trend that it seems to be unassailable. I should point out that this ignores those occasions when I’ve received a strong IOI from a girl. But for some reason, if I go out on a daygame session then my mojo doesn’t seem to kick in until around the fifth.

The lesson here—for myself as well as for you—is that my procrastination at the start is pointless.

Pointless because, well, if I’m not going to get a sniff of traction until my fifth conversation, then I may as well get the first four out the way as quickly as possible.

So next time you’re out doing daygame, complete your first four interactions as rapidly as possible.

You want to hit the sweet spot of the fifth.

Failure to do so means you’re just wasting your time.

If you haven’t already, do read my other recent daygame article here.

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