So I arrived in Kiev. And it was a fuck up. My fault—probably. The driver that was meant to pick me up from the arrivals lounge wasn’t there. So I checked the messages from my Airbnb host, and it turned out she’d asked me to remind her about the car yesterday, which I’d forgotten about. …
Do we really ‘see’ other people, or just a simulacrum of them? Do we perceive real beings, or are those that we pass in the street every day mere phantoms, cutouts who we imbue with our own imaginations and prejudices? I’ve spent a lot of today on a train, surrounded by people who I didn’t …
There is one immutable law of the universe—never travel for a girl. It will always fuck up, one way or another. Not that I would ever travel solely for a girl these days (unless I as in a relationship with her). There’s simply no need. Since I work online, and I can work from anywhere on …
Well, I finally bit the bullet and came to Warsaw. I’ve been to Poland before, just not the capital city. I was staying in Berlin, and on a whim booked a train ticket and headed over. It’s amazing how tired you feel after sitting on a train for 6.5 hours doing fuck all. Some of …
Another recent study found that the more pornography people reported watching in a survey in 2006, the more likely they were to report increased doubts about their religious beliefs and reduced importance of religion/spirituality in their daily lives in a follow-up survey in 2012 (Perry, 2017). However, there was an exception to this general trend for a …
There is no more important equation in any of our lives than comfort versus risk. ‘Comfort versus risk’ is the alter at which dreams die. It is also the crucible wherein greatness is incubated. Let me explain what I mean. Most people are instinctively either comfort-seekers or risk-takers. Or at least, they fall somewhere along …
I met up with Tom Torero in Essex last Friday, took a ferry overnight with him and his van to Holland, and then drove all day to Germany, finishing up in Hamburg for the Saturday night. It was an eventful weekend to say the least. Tom was on the first stint of his ‘Blacksheep Bandit’ …
A week ago today I was in Berlin, running around the city, visiting a few of the old haunts. The friend I was with had been to Berlin before but didn’t know it particularly well, and, because I spend a lot of time there, he was keen for me to act as tour guide. It’s probably …
So I spent a lot of the weekend outdoors in London shooting infields—that is, short video clips where I approach new girls, banter with them, and attempt to get their contact details. Or not, as the case may be. It was an enlightening exercise for a number of reasons. I’d never done it before, you …
Great news – my new book CUCKED is out NOW—and you can download your very own copy from this email! I worked hard on this book and I am very proud of it. After some consideration I decided to give it away for free (for the moment, at least) since the message is really important and I …
