Too many men walk around thinking that the women they desire are superior to them. In the unlikely event one of them accepts him for sex or a relationship, he assumes she must be doing him a favour, that there must be something “special” about their relationship. Beware, for this is how pedestalization, obsession, and …
Right now my book The Seven Laws of Seduction is available to buy on Amazon. (It may not be forever, though—more on that soon ;)) It is the culmination of over a decade’s worth of practice out in the dating trenches, as well as exposure to the thinking of other renegade playboys. I’ve spent a lot of …
Do you want to enjoy the renegade life, but you’re not getting the results with dating you’d like, or feel that you should be getting? A major problem faced by many of us at one time or another is lack of motivation. When faced with the choice between going out into the unpredictable and potentially harsh world of the club to meet new …
There is nothing greater than the feeling of completion – of having worked on a demanding project that is important to you for a long period, and then bringing it to a successful conclusion. David Deida, in The Way of the Superior Man, writes famously that for a man to be whole he should have …
I was first introduced to James Holt over a year ago when he contacted me for a project that he was working on at the time. Then, when we both started doubling down on Twitter (at the beginning of 2018) we became online buddies, meeting up in person for the first time in Budapest this …
Eye contact is without doubt the dedicated renegade playboy’s go-to in his quest intimacy with beautiful women. It turns out that all that dating advice of yore—from 90’s ‘lad’ mags, problems pages, and your mum—was correct in this particular: strong, confident eye contact is exceptionally potent in producing pantie tsunamis. Just not for the reasons that …
One of the main emotions that men have to deal with in picking up women is resentment. This is more pernicious than it might sound. The book Alcoholics Anonymous states that ‘resentment is the number one offender. It destroys more alcoholics than anything else.’ The idea is that if someone annoys you and you allow them to …
I am obsessed with personal branding. I write about it, I create podcasts and video content about it, I post on Instagram about it. I talk about it to friends and business colleagues. Personal branding is my THING. Now, if you were to ask me why I am so attracted to it, I would probably …
Let’s be under no illusions here: if you want to achieve success in the dating arena as a guy then how you look matters – a lot. There is a kind of doublethink at play sometimes as guys have this idea that women are less looks-orientated than they are. Now, in part that’s true (more …
When I was 27 years old I was an alcoholic. I’d drunk everything away—-my university education, relationships with my family, my career, friends etc. I was reduced to living in a single room in Manchester with the curtains drawn and empty bottles of wine on the floor around me. I was only sustained by the …
