A tool that is incredibly popular in self-development is “fake it ’til you make it”—that is, affect the external trappings of success until it becomes second nature and you generate actual success. But too many people do the first part and not the second. If you pretend to have “made it” while not actively working to …

There comes a time in the life of even the most hardened player when he meets a girl that he likes and wants to spend time with exclusively. This can be for a variety of reasons. Many men go into game in the first place with the sole purpose of forming a relationship, realising that …

Whether you are looking to attract a long-term girlfriend or wife, or you are experimenting with shorter-term liaisons, learning the art of seduction is essential. Reams of content have been written on the topic, indeed, it’s possible to get lost in a tsunami of pick-up advice. But while it can be useful to absorb successful …

I’d considered writing a post about ‘where I am with game’ what with it being—still, just about—the beginning of 2017. I wanted to set down in writing certain vague, unexplored feelings I’ve been having about still being into game (or pickup, or PUA or whatever) for coming up for 13 years (and that’s not counting …

Sexual frustration is real and it’s a problem. A guy who hasn’t been laid for a few weeks or even months is really going to feel the pressure. Sex, after all, is a basic human need: arguably this is doubly the case for men, what with their higher testosterone and bio-evolutionary programming. Fortunately, sexual frustration can …

So often game hinges on simple logistics and momentum rather than clever tricks or techniques. Whether you actually get laid or not is, after a certain baseline attraction has been established, more about how you handle the pull than anything else. In most cities today where life is both fast and pressured you have to …

Many guys come to me looking for answers to problems that they have with girls. While these of course vary in their details, inevitably they all point to a much bigger issue: the guy who has sought out help just does not have enough options. Rather than look for quick, silver bullet fixes for apparent …

When a man is sexually or romantically interested in a women, it is absolutely imperative that he is clear in his intent and that he communicates this to her, either overtly or covertly. If he fails to do so, the risk is that he will end up in friendzone hell, or at the very least …