In celebration of the launch of my course CHARISMA & DATING ACADEMY Q4 I will be running a whole TWELVE DAYS’ worth of content on INNER GAME on YouTube from Nov 1st – Nov 12th 2021 If ‘game’ is about externals like flirting, body language and eye contact then ‘inner game’ focuses on the mindsets …
Breakups are hard, one of the hardest things that we have to go through. I have a friend who once said to me ‘even the death of my father was not as painful as some of the breakups I’ve been through’. Let that sink in for a moment.The demise of his own flesh and blood …
One problem with getting older is that you’ve done everything before. Not absolutely everything, of course (more on that later). But by my age (late 40s) when you’ve seen quite a few seasons pass it’s difficult to avoid a feeling of sameness and ennui. You meet a girl. She’s cute, but her reactions are almost …
There is a paradox – life is short and so you should go for the things that you want. But if you’re too ready to rule people, experiences and things out because they don’t quite measure up you risk missing out something you would have really enjoyed. I was working with a client in Warsaw …
As you are no doubt aware, my course Dating Conversation Success is currently open for new students until Monday night at midnight when it closes for the foreseeable future. There are already a bunch of guys inside the course and they’re getting huge value from the content which – remember – is designed to ensure …
When you are attracted to a woman and approach her with the aim of getting a date it is important that she understands clearly what your intention is. That is to say, she must recognise that you are interested in her romantically, that you are hitting on her. There should be no confusion on this point …
The James Tusk banter bus rolls on. Right now I’m in Warsaw – once again – the wonderful Polish capital for a last-minute bootcamp training event. Over the weekend we will be joined by more students. We will also be creating content – filming those students who’ve given us their permission to do so in …
Yesterday I did a stream with James Tusk where we discussed an article ‘Sales Funnels and High Value Men – The Rise of Strategic Dating’ about a new book called 138 Dates by Rebekah Campbell. In it Campbell encourages women to be strategic about their dating and to utilise ‘sales funnels’ and vetting in order …
I saw an amusing Tweet yesterday by someone called @kitten_beloved and I liked it so much that I immediately retweeted it. Kitten had herself retweeted a picture of Elon Musk with his girlfriend Grimes originally shared by someone called @gasstationbarbie who had written above it ‘what do they have in common like what do they …
I went to the kiosk just down from my apartment in Berlin to buy coffee. The owners – a Turkish family – know me since I’ve been coming in sporadically for six years. They know me only by sight since I don’t speak Turkish and my German is negligible. Today, the glamorous matriarch was behind …
